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The One Thing You Need to Know About Narcissists

Originally posted on Let Me Reach with Kim Saeed:

Or… Do Relationships with Narcissists Last?

I get many ideas for blog posts from search terms that lead people to Let Me Reach.  This particular question always pulls at my heartstrings because I know the place readers are coming from when they ask, “Can a relationship with a Narcissist last?”

First, there is no guarantee that any relationship will last.  A successful relationship endures through dynamics such as mutual trust, respect, compassion, and a degree of emotional maturity.  Even if a partner isn’t a Narcissist, it doesn’t mean they are long-term relationship material.  Establishing a friendship before becoming romantically involved is the best route to take.  Many people get into the dating scene and establish an “instant relationship” with a virtual stranger.  However, it takes a long time to really know someone and determine if they are a good match.

Now, onto relationships with Narcissists.  In general, Narcissists…

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The REAL Reason the Narcissist Comes Back After No Contact

Originally posted on Let Me Reach with Kim Saeed:

Did your Narcissist recently leave you for a new lover and is now having “second thoughts”?  Or, did you finally leave and are now being stalked like an episode of Investigation Discovery?  Did the relationship end and he/she is love-bombing and hoovering to the nth degree?

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As convincing as it may seem, this has nothing to do with love.  Every single action employed by the Narcissist stems from a pathological need to control others.  In order to prove your love to a Narcissist, you must surrender all power and control over to them.  In short, you must become a real-life Marionette whose only purpose is to enhance the Narcissist’s false image, take care of them like a newborn baby, and accept their self-serving abuse.

The Narcissist has no real identity, only an illusion of themselves built on their ability to control other people.  When they lose control over others, this…

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My Ex Narcissist Is After Some Narcissistic Supply!


So, I gave him it last night, via email. He is now prowling and taunting somebody I love, a beautiful special young lady who I have known since the day she was born. If you are reading this old man, you need to back right off and leave her alone. She is ignoring your calls for a reason, she doesn’t want to know. Go buy your yacht or your motor home and disappear far away. Please just go and leave us all alone. We are all doing just fine.


Every Day Is Like Christmas Morning When You Appreciate The Gift Of A Brand New Day

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5.30am Wales UK.

My favourite part of the day, the sunrise, the stillness, the silence. Sitting on the bench in my garden with a nice cup of tea ( here in Wales, in our native language of Welsh a cup of tea is called ‘A Paned’ Pronounced Pan Ed)

While the world sleeps, all I can hear is the gentle rustling of the trees in the breeze, the amazing birdsong and my cat purring. The same Blackbird, each morning, singing the most beautiful song. The love song of his life, more beautiful than any man made instrument I have ever heard. A gift more precious than any to me. The dawn chorus, a free festival of song.

Thank you Lord for the gift of today, this truly wonderful gift. Please help me be the person I used to be, have always been. Please help me to bite my tongue and…

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11Months Before 9/11 #WATCH AND #LISTEN

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So very many false flag events these days are completely torn to shreds by the alternative media. You only have to do a quick internet search to see this. The mistakes these global elitists are making beggars belief. Or are they deliberate mistakes as I suspect.

For people that have the time to study false flag events in any great depth it is breathtakingly obvious that these events are now supposed to be seen through, they want us to know these things, which in turn creates even more terror when ordinary folk realise the only terrorists are our own governments run by the illuminati. A five year old could see the mistakes they are making, my friends call me the detective, well it requires no special skills whatsoever to solve any of it. Like my friend shaunynews says of the Malaysian flight which was allegedly shout out of the sky over Eastern Ukraine yesterday, there is not one single piece of footage of anything falling out of the sky, just a ground explosion. Was there even a plane or was the wreckage planted? Has anyone seen any ads anywhere for crisis actors? This attempt to fool us if that is the Case appears to be the worst one ever and EVERYBODY is asking questions? Is it meant to make us so angry that they are lying, again, is it meant to push us towards a violent revolution so they can lock us all up in FEMA camps in the USA and drunk tanks and the secret prisons in the UK? Therefore allowing The United Nations Agenda 21 a springboard to their practical application of Sustainable Development, they are turning the West into the third world before our very eyes and no one is challenging it. I’m even becoming too tired to even comment on these events anymore and it probably shows. False flags, all they do is act to push forward an already planned agenda only these days they don’t even bother with hidden agenda’s, they are all there in plain site .

If it weren’t for my faith I would be terrified of what is coming.

Chris Spivey a UK blogger/writer/researcher has absolute proof that the Woolwich Murder of Soldier Lee Rigby was a fake and that the soldier who was shot down wasn’t shot down, in fact he has never existed. Lee Rigby is a fictitious character who was never even born and Chris proves this in his article The Drummer Man. When Chris researches and writes an article, his articles can be as long as novels and he won’t publish anything until he has taken it to pieces, rebuilt it and put it back together but boy does he get to the truth.

I’m tired folks. I’m so tired of all this. And for the record I will never have the chip put in my body. I will starve or be murdered before that will ever happen. See video. Su x

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Before we blame Russia for blowing up flight MH17, lets watch this


I think you are totally right Shaun, my niece and I spent hours doing exactly the same thing and things absolutely do not add up at all. Folk like you and I, researchers and critical thinkers are so aware of THE TRUTH about so many events that we are on auto pilot so to speak when events like this happen. We automatically go into the zone. We analyse everything, while most look at the picture we are busy looking into the shadows and dear God there is plenty to look at Shaun. Well done Shaun, you are both a very honest and fair man and when you speak people listen because you are so trustworthy and a THOUROGHLY good man. Thank you for this Shaun. Su x

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I have been watching video’s all day, some obviously made by people, but a few caught my eye in terms of “It doesn’t fit what we are told” It doesn’t fit the official story. The easy thing right now is for the World to be angry at Russia, but remember, we have been here before. When 9/11 happened Americans wanted everyone in the Middle East dead. When 7/7 happened (Tube and Bus bombs in London) Most of us wanted the same people dead. When the 2 terrorists ran a car into an Airport 45 miles from my home, we wanted someone to pay.

What I am saying is, we all quickly look to blame. Now this plane was still on fire and the Main Stream Media were blaming Russia. Now go back in your mind to 9/11, before the towers even fell Osama Bin Laden was to blame, the American…

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