Consider the hour-glass; there is nothing to be accomplished by rattling or shaking; you have to wait patiently until the sand, grain by grain, has run from one funnel into the other.
“Like sand through the hourglass, so are the days of our lives…..”
Yes, I see the hourglass, often race against it.
Most days it’s as if my feet hit the floor and someone, (I’m not sure who) turns that hourglass over and the race is on, just to get through the day. It’s like a bad board game.
If I’m honest, (and I do try to be) I don’t always notice the ‘ grains of sand’ that make up that hourglass. The hourglass of my life. I live my life often missing the grains of sand that when added together become the beautiful beach of my life. I am treating it as a timer rather than noticing all it’s made up of.
Over the years, I’ve found that simply pausing to notice these grains of sand in my life brings me closer to the One who created it all. Noticing them causes me to pause. Noticing the grains perpetrates a grateful heart. These sands, which alone appear insignificant, add up to days, weeks and eventually a lifetime; and in turn a legacy. The legacy of my life.
So I pause.
I pause to notice the grain of sand that ‘slams’ as each person enters this home. It’s a sign that the door is open, where there will always be a ‘light on for you’ and hospitality dwells within.
I pause to notice the grain of sand that is a conversation with a struggling teenager as I am blessed with an opportunity to impart some wisdom from my own walk. The conversation that I’d rather not have, but when I pause, I see that it may be a conversation that makes a difference in a life.
I pause to notice the grain of sand who is the patient art teacher who encourages and edifies as he helped reveal the gifts that were hidden inside of me, gifts that up until then have gone unexplored.
I pause to notice the grain of sand in the boxes of food counted and loaded for the local food bank I pause too at the knowledge that this room full with over a half ton of food will only supply the people for three days I pause to notice the abundance in my own cupboards and I am grateful.
The grains of sand are many, and at times I treat them as if they are more like ‘sand between my toes’ rather than the disguised blessings that they really are.
“Lord, remind me how brief my time on earth will be. Remind me that my days are numbered, and that my life is fleeing away.”
Psalm 39:4
Each of these grains of sand are all gentle reminders of who I am and the life that surrounds me. Each one is, upon observation, part of a much bigger picture. These ‘grains’ are a reflection of this life. A life that is often consumed and preoccupied with the ‘to do list.’ A life that often turns over the timer and misses the grains of sand that make up a very blessed existence.
A rushed life.
It is indeed fleeting and it is indeed a race, but at the end of the race, I will either hear, “what in world happened to YOU?” or I will be privileged to approach the finish line hearing these words; these beautiful words:
“The master said, ‘Well done, my good and faithful servant. You have been faithful in handling this small amount, so now I will give you many more responsibilities. Let’s celebrate together!’
Matthew 25:23
Pause and reflect on the grains of sand that make up your life. Minute as they may be, they are part of a much larger picture. Lest we ever forget that they are continually pouring out; they pour out onto a much larger canvas….a masterpiece called your life.
January 7, 2014 at 3:45 AM
congratulations for the excellent text
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July 29, 2014 at 12:20 PM
Reblogged this on Outside The Box and commented:
Just thought I’d reblog a few old posts. Su x
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July 29, 2014 at 1:32 PM
These words are so beautiful and poignant, and ring so true for me, that I hope you don’t mind if I reblog them on my ‘musings’ blog? I have no doubt that some of those grains of sand, whether you’re aware of them or not, will become pearls one day; even those times that result in difficulty and further struggle – perhaps for you, perhaps for others – can, in time, produce something of great value, in the same way an oyster produces a pearl from something it perceives as an irritant (sand).
(And I just noticed, you’re about to reach 10,000 hits on your blog. That’s amazing and awesome.)
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July 29, 2014 at 1:36 PM
Reblogged this on Musings from the Soul and commented:
From my friend and kindred spirit, lookingthroughanotherseyes…whose words resonate so beautifully…
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July 29, 2014 at 6:59 PM
That’s so beautiful, really lovely, I can’t even remember if it was me that wrote this lol, did I write it or just add to it I can’t remember, I usually put a link to the source if I didn’t. The joys of brain fog, I know you will understand what I mean as you have a very similar illness. 10,000? Wow, I only started it 10 months ago. I started it as a way to keep my ex narcissist informed of what I was up to. He had just left the UK to spend 6 months in your Great country. Thank you so very much for your lovely kind words my friend. Su xxx
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July 29, 2014 at 7:00 PM
Thank you so much for the reblog my friend. Su x
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July 31, 2014 at 9:57 AM
I’m madly looking for that email address I’m sure you gave me (or is that my brain fog kicking in again? Not only do I forget basic things – like you…not recognizing something I’ve written a while ago – but it appears I sometimes remember things that never happened. Or perhaps that’s just what my abuser had me convinced of.)
But I’ve just read that you’ll be absent for a while, spending your time, energy and love with your beautiful mother. You saw it in her eyes…:( I just want you to know that I’m thinking of you with much love and compassion, and that you and your family are very much in my prayers. Don’t forget to nurture yourself with the same love and compassion you offer to everyone else. You’ll need it at this time; with your illnesses and all the pain and difficulty they entail, you’ll be very susceptible to crashing physically as well as emotionally. Be gentle with yourself…hug your daughter…soak in the beauty of nature when you can…and keep your eyes lifted to the source of all love. God’s keep.
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August 10, 2014 at 5:30 PM
Miss Min you are such a beautiful lady with such a kind and lovely soul. Thank you so much. Yes I totally understand, the cognitive difficulties like brain fog and memory problems are so frustrating. It is thethistleblog@gmail.com Please don’t worry one bit because I completely understand. I think it’s a couple of weeks since we last chatted. Are things any further along and getting wrapped up? More importantly, are you ok? Have you got your car back yet? I also have lost your email address! What a fine pair we are lol. Su x
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